Haha my wife feels the same about caps being for old people. Im lucky to have been allowed a contractors rack and even that is only allowed when its absolutely needed. She wont even allow a tonneau cover on the colorado, im suprised she hasnt made me remove the one on my ranger yet. Ibe seen some bed rack prices put caps to shame. If i still lived in a cold state i would definately be pushing for a sleeper cap but when its 90+ degrees 3/4 of the year you want a tent up high in the breeze. Rtt bed racks keep you off the ground away from bugs, snakes and other critters they also keep you in the breeze. If a group of rigs park in a semi circle and everyone has ground tents then the camp space gets filled out pretty fast, tent on rack frees up alot of space. I dont drink alchohol anymore but i can see how climbing up in a tent at night and out in the morning would discourage drinking. As they say there is more than one way to skin a cat, there are window screens you can get for vehicle windows and matresses for rear seats so you could just turn your rig itself into a tent, then there are the cap toppers you can sleep in, can sleep under a tonneau cover but it gets stuffy, ground tent, rooftop tent, pop up camper trailer, tear drop trailer and rtt trailer. Lots of options. My ground tent fits on top of my contactors rack or on the ground my rack allows me to carry a bed full of gear and put 2 -10.5 ft kayaks on top. It also lets me carry stuff longer than 6 ft without hanging out the bed