I think this is the wrong section for advice but Bilstein and Icon are both good for daily drivers as they're digressive valved and will have tighter on-road performance. I'm personally partial to Bilstein and I think it would be a great fit for most norcal trails.
Fox and King are linear valved and while much more compliant off road, they're going to be much softer on road too with more sway and less control. If you do a lot of rough desert driving in the southwest there is nothing better but you need to be doing a lot of desert miles to really make it worth it.