I never heard of the Badge of Honor Trails until your post so I looked it up, I guess it is a Jeep Thang :-) (I drive a Toyota). I have done all the ones in CA except for the Dusy Ershim.
I map all of my routes on Google for highways and Garmin Bascamp for off-road. You could also use an app like Gaia. Gold Mountain, Holcomb Creek and Jon Bull are in the San Bernardino Mountains in the big bear area, So I would do that first and then head to Anza Borrego to do the Pinyon Mountain Road. There is lots of other things to see in Big Bear and Anza Borrego. For the trails in Big Bear I would start with Gold Mountain, then John Bull and then Holcomb Creek. If you start early and don't get stuck or broke down you could do them in one day.